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EXPLORING THE EROGENOUS ZONE

EXPLORING THE EROGENOUS ZONE



 


Bobby Deol
Men and Women. Adamn and Eve. The war of roses. The battle of the sexes.The male and the female, struggling for supremacy since time immemorial. The Yin and the Yan, each incomplete without the other and yet apart. Giving rise to certain, seemingly, unassailable, impregnable myths.Myths. "Unproved, collective beliefs that are accepted uncritically and are used to justify social insitution." And which have come unchallenged through the ages. Let's toss some of these myths to some of our stars. The happy-go-lucky Govinda, vivacious Raveena, intense Chandrachur, emotional Sunil Shetty and strong-minded Twinkle Khanna. Whatever their biological or psychological differences, one thing both sexes show in their fascination for each other. Their curosity to explore each other's mysterious worlds. Whenever offered an opportunity, they have jumped at it. Like this time too.





Q: Women are more emotional than men while men are calculating and shrewd. For a man love is only a part of his exisitence while for a woman it is her existence entirely.
Govinda: Men can be as emotional as women, some more so. I myself am an extremly emotional person. There are also women who can be extremely
Raveena: I agree totally. Men are more shrewd and calculating because men are more definetly much more practical. Women defintely are more emotional than men. Their hearts rule their heads. Like me, whatever I'm feeling in my heart comes out in my actions. Generally for men, the women they are in love with, is just one of the chapters in their life but for a woman her life totally revolves around her man. Even the programmng of her day, where she has to go, what she has to do is according to him. But generally for the man it's like only when I'm free of my work can I go and meet my girlfriend.

Chandrachur: I disagree completely. Men are much more emotional. See, if a woman shows emotions it is considered very natural, people are used to it while men are not supposed to as they are supposed to be macho. But they not only feel, they feel much worse. If a man-woman realtionship breaks up I'd say the man suffers more mental trauma than the woman.

 


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Sunil: I myself am a very, very emotional and touchy person if it's things concerning my near and dear ones. But yes men are more practical, they have to be. For a man love is one of the many compartments in his life while for a woman it's her whole existence. That's because that's the way life is supposed to be. The man is supposed to take care of his family, for which he has to work, to give them a better living he has to work and he has to take care of a whole host of other tensions.

Twinkle: I think this myth is basically just because men don't cry or don't show their emotions. Infact, maybe even more. Women cry more easily but they get hurt less easily than men in love.

Q:Men don't need to be pampered, loved or cared for as much as women need to be. Govinda: Men need to be pampered more because they feel insecure without that caring. I feel that women are much stronger now emotionally.

Raveena: I think it is men who need all the pampering and looking after. First they want their mothers to pamper them, then they want their sisters to obey their orders, then they want their wives and girlfriends to wait on them hand and foot.

Chandrachur: It's mutual. Men need to be pampered or loved too. I'm the kind of person who'd give a lot because I need to give.

Sunil: I need to be pampered all the time. I need to be loved my by mother, my wife, my daughter. They have to keep telling me they love me.

Twinkle: Every man that I know wants to be pampered fussed, loved and taken care of. They basically want mummy all the time and made to feel special as their mother made them feel.

Q:Women bitch more than men.  


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Govinda: I dont' think that either men or women bitch. They are not bitching they are having discussions.

Raveena: AAAAH! How totally untrue! Men are the biggest gossips going around the planet earth! Of course men bitch more than a women.

Chandrachur: I don't agree that women bitch more than men. I think that both bitch a lot.

Sunil: People feel that women have a lot more time that's why they bitch more. Because they are at home on the phone all the time. But men aren't only bitchy, men are cut-throat.

Twinkle: Men bitch but women defintely bitch more than men. If you see just men sitting around a group and talking they'll be talking about football, politics or cricket. They are not actually going to talk about the man who suddenly leaves the room and goes out to the bathroom whereas women will do that.

Q:Men have very fragile, massive egos while women don't have them at all
Govinda: Depends on person to person. You cannot call it a myth.

 


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Raveena: It's true. And mens egos are hundred times more fragile than womens. Mens egos need to be soothes, fed and pampered all the time.

Chandrachur: It's true that men do have egos but it's absolute wrong to say that women don't have egos at all. I've seen women with egos all my life

Sunil: It's true but thas' because men are are in a competitive world

Twinkle: This is not neccessarily true. It's not on the person and on the way they've been brought up and how they seem to think.

Q:Women are more jealous and possesive than men.
Govinda: It's not true. I for a fact am a very possesive person. I'd hate anyone to even look at my wife.

Raveena: No, both are equally jealous. Women are slightly more because they are more emotional about these things so they get jealous.

Chandrachur: No men are equally posessive and jealous.

Sunil: Women are definetly more possesive and jealous than men because they give a lot more to a relationship than a man does.

Twinkle: I think men are equally jealous and possesive. There are many cases of a jealous lover punching another man as there are of women clawing at each others faces.

"I EXPECT MY WIFE TO BE
INDEPENDENT. MANA HAS HER OWN
DESIGNER WEAR SHOP...I FEEL A
WOMAN'S ROLE IS MORE AT HOME,
TAKING CARE OF ALL THE NEEDS
AND REQUIREMENTS OF HER FAMILY
AND HOME."
--SUNIL SHETTY


 


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"MEN ARE MORE PRE-OCCUPIED
WITH SEX THAN WOMEN. THEY
HAVE SEX ON THEIR MINDS MOST
OF THE TIME..."
--GOVINDA


Q:The sexual urge in men is more pronounced. Men are obsessed with Sex.

Govinda: It's very true. men are more preoccupied with sex than women. They have sex on their minds most of the time.

Raveena: Not neccesarily. I think women are more sensual than men. We women read romantic books and watch romantic films. It's only men who are tottaly preoccupied. Otherwise passion is equally in everyone's life.

"WOMEN ARE MORE SENSUAL THAN MEN. PASSION COMES STRONGER TO WOMEN. SO SEX IS ON THEIR MINDS MORE THAN MEN." --RAVEENA

Chandrachur: I totally disagree with this fact. Women are as much preoccupied with sex as men, perhaps more so. If you put a man and a woman in a society like Bombay things are different here. Here people are allowed much more to be themselves then they are in the villages

Sunil: NO. That's because women in our society are not supposed to talk about it. Women are equally preoccupied with sex but they can't be open about it.  


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Twinkle: I think that is true to a certain extent because hormonely we are made differently. The sexual urge comes throughthe hormone testosterone, we women have very little of it or almost none whereas thats' basically their main hormone. I read somewhere that a man thinks of sex twenty times a day. Me as a woman I don't think of sex anywhere close to twenty times a day.


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